Breaking Modern Loneliness: Jeremy Zucker [Episode 3]

게시일 2020. 05. 22.
welcome to breaking modern loneliness, an episodic podcast where each episode is a new open forum discussion on all things human relationships, mental health, and technology. we start with a specific topic, but usually break into whatever space feels natural. hosted by me, ari leff, who is singer/songwriter/producer lauv, and joined by various guests, friends, and professionals. we hope you enjoy each conversation as much as we enjoyed having them :)
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this episode, lauv & jeremy zucker discuss how making new friends is hard. jeremy -- artist, songwriter and producer behind the debut album love is not dying and singles "comethru" and "always, i'll care" -- discuss the exciting highs and anxiety-inducing lows of making new friends as adults.
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    • Helllllloooooo I love ur music so much!

    • @meh *YES*


    • Hi

    • 💙💙💙

  • ㄹㅇ 어렸을때는 색연필을 같은거 가져왔단 이유로 금방 친해지고 놀고 그랬는데 크면서 점점 힘들어짐..

  • Brooo, all my friends are girls too. Jeremy is amazing.

  • I can relate to Jeremy 'cause I also have social anxiety plus depression. Thank you for your music, guys. And love you both. ♡︎

  • Can you guys make a song together

  • We need them to collab

  • Do collab plsassss

  • Who wants hear them both singing together ?

  • I was thinking they is one person :(

  • they look like brothers

  • Collab please... It would be a very deep song about a person's insecurities

  • Don't they look like twins

  • I feel like they're both closeted, i don't know.

  • How come I am this month's old when I found this dang I need this all my lifeeeeeeeee

  • Wow I literally have been going through everything you mentioned, i love how u opened up about this as a male, because i always felt maybe because I'm just a very sensitive girl. It was so awesome to see both of you share your experience each experience was different but had the same core problem which is craving deep connection, i feel today in this generation there is a lack of deep intimacy instead of just sex and texting all the time we need more deeper connections that don't involve sex and technology.

  • Is Jeremy talking about the feedback loop from hell by Mark Manson?

  • Damn they look like twins

  • Dude pls do a collab

  • two kings of dumbassery

  • Lauv and Jeremy is my Favourite ❤️❤️

  • Why can't I have conversations like this with people? I love how they communicate. They listen to each other so well :)

  • I am glad that I get to relate to what kind of friendship that Lauv wants.... Because Like..... He is basically talking about me.... So I am really thankful for hearing this Podcast Extra Note : Also, Lauv needs to do a collab with Jeremy.... I NEED A SONG WITH BOTH OF THEM : )))))))

  • Jeremy the therapist helping Lauv

  • now subscribe to Jeremy Zucker

  • Omg this two my fav singer (Blackbear is missing though)

  • I loved how Jeremy talk. He's so natural. I really loved this man💙

  • When Kauv said "i'm weird" i felt that...

  • I'm always love jeremy, omg he's so cute. Im gay for him, lmao


  • they look so alike side by side wow

  • my fav artists tgt please do a collab song🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • When Jeremy mentioned how his mood dictates how he treats others at the moment, I felt so understood.

  • 16:14 I always do this instead of keeping in contact with the friends that I already made. :(

  • Ohh no! They're so alike! I thought they're twin! 🤨😍

  • PLSSSS!!!!

  • I feel like you guys were talking about me xd this is so relatable...

  • I really hope you guys makes songs together.

  • whenever I watch lauv’s interviews, live steams or whatever, I’m always surprised because I feel exactly same way with him. That’s probably the reason why I was really obsessed with his one man boyband. while watching this conversation between two, I was surprised at the same point with lauv about jeremy’s thinking which is quite different from mine and totally new to me. There were a lot of things that I could learn in this video from Jeremy. Thanks to lauv for giving me this precious lesson. oh god I’m SO happy to see someone like me and SO happy to see someone not like me😌

  • We want a collab

  • Lauv should make songs with Jeremy

  • e a collab patrões?

  • Best duo ever

  • Oh My God! The tandem that I'd been wishing for 💖

  • Jeremy has the same t-shirt as in supercuts

  • i want jeremy to listen to my problems to 🥺😁🥺😁

  • I positively adore both of them... so honest. Good vibes.

  • I'm in love with the way they just blink through the video its amazing😂😂😂 especially at 1:37

  • i love you both so much


  • If LAUV and JEREMY collab? Ow bitvh, I think Im the Happiest Fan of them,

  • los amo, me gustan


  • it's so clear that they both have been on the same road of pain but are still in different stages of it. it appears that lauv is still somewhat finding his way and is kinda broken but jeremy has moved on from that and found his own remedy. i hope they both know that they're never alone though, sucks seeing your favourite artists going through this because you just want to protect them from the hurt.

  • I have a crush on Lauv tbh. But like I'm in like 10 fandoms (including KO-urs so like wth) 😂😂😂

  • i ship these two💕💓

  • they're both straight but i really would like them to be together.💕

  • looks like a twins. haha so cute. u guys should collaborate together. lots of love for everyone, stay safe.

  • This was amazing

  • Anyone else find their views on friendships so so relateable

  • soon, u must collab with jerry

  • imagine a collab from our sad kings.....

  • God sent me here❤

  • im just glad that he can have this type of conversation with someone...

  • “i feel like for some reason it’s actually easier for me to be open with new people than it is sometimes with the people i’m closest to.” woah, that is so true 😭

  • Why do they look like the twins who are so awesome to hangout with🌞

  • favourite two ❤❤❤

  • That two guys look very similar😊😊

  • You guys should make a song together.

  • LAUV X JEREMY ZUCKER = 🔥🔥🔥⚡️⚡️⚡️

  • Interview Jonathon Ng (EDEN) 🖤

    • OMG YESSSSS👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼


  • It is true that recognizing your behaviour is important, being self aware is the first step ❤❤❤

  • I love this conversation ❤❤❤

  • Collab plzz

  • Feels like im watching brothers talking to each other online

  • brooklyn nine nine fans be like: tip budssssss

  • W E N E E D A C O L L A B

  • Thank you, you are really good dudes

  • Please do a collab!!!

  • deep stuff discussed here... related a lot to it as not just an artist but as an individual. appreciate you guys opening up about it foreal really eye opening. much love these topics need to be discussed

  • just stare at the middle of the vid or the screen and see their face change !!!

  • You should post a guided meditation for us to follow


  • They would legit fit as being brother

  • same guy different fonts

  • before this i think they is the same person

  • Colab please

  • i'm waiting for troye to show up in one of these episodes ; i'm gonna be so happy to see them talk about deep stuff together 🥺

  • this is so beautiful ─ two adult males openly talking about their feelings without getting judged or being called "weak." i love you two so much ! 💙🦋✨

  • just can't waiting you guys make a song together

  • We want collab

  • These podcasts are so nice and so interesting to listen because I feel like everyone can relate to it so much. I am also worried that Lauv is trying to find answers for himself with all these podcast. Lot of love and positivityto everyone out there

  • Omg I'm so fucking happy right now, I dreamed with this a lot! Thx guys, love you ❤️

  • I can understand just abt 30% of this conversation because my English listening skill is really bad :((

  • They kinda look the same it’s scary.....

  • Jeremys voice is like a warm hug

  • 여기 한국인 없나요ㅠㅠ 이 둘 너무 귀엽잖아ㅠㅠㅠ 제발 둘이 콜라보 해줘요ㅠㅠㅠ 알람 들리는 대로 튀어올게요ㅠㅠㅜ

  • I know how you feel lauv doesn't anyone?

  • They both look like brothers😅

  • 9:24 Jeremy just quoted Mark Manson from his book "The subtle art of not giving a f**k"